Francesca Furci
Writing with Public Purpose
Faces and their vital role
in human connection
“A face is like the outside of a house, and
most faces, like most houses, give us an idea of what we can expect to find
inside.” While our face makes up only a small percentage of our image, it can
easily be understood that it provides the most information in regards to the
current situation an individual is in. It can display happiness, despair,
interest, insecurity, and many other qualities that are crucial to human
interaction. In reading what is said without words through a person’s face, we
can become better communicators, friends, and lovers.
In the given image we see a young woman
with a smile on her face. Her eyes are forward, and connected, and she seems
confident. With these things in mind we are open to the fact that she is
approachable, thus likely a good candidate to socialize and interact with. One
study showed that, “genuine smiles,
and potentially other social cues, may be useful social reinforcers and
therefore important in the control of social behavior on a moment-to-moment
basis during interaction” (Bangor, Shore). This truly supports the idea that a
smile is the most important social cue, and with it, social interaction has the
ability to thrive.
On the contrary, when someone presents a
facial expression as shown here, it can be assumed that they are upset. Behind
these simple emotions, one study found that these facial expressions are driven
by increased mental usage (Gendolla, APA). This makes sense that the person
would then be less prone to socialize. Not only is there something that is
bothering them emotionally, but in turn, they are mentally exhausted from the
thought processes. It is obvious then, that the social clue would be to refrain
from excessive social interaction with individuals under this stress. Of course
this is not to ignore those who are close to the person and may relieve some
stress, but as a whole, social interaction with those who present these signs
is not a favorable condition.
While the above two faces seem to be
common sense, and easily understood. This ideas span beyond the simple ideas of
happy and sad. This picture shows the perfect example of curiosity. This may be
an individual that would be inclined to interact social with some social
prompts. This usually includes something that causes comfort, or intrigues the
person at hand. This can be identified as someone with wide eyes, and a
slightly open mouth. Their body language may be shifted away, but their eye
contact provides proof of interest. This person is someone that you can engage
with, but must proceed with the proper content.
While this next example is humorous and
comical in the sense that it is exaggerated and in the form of a child, it
accurately depicts the features of someone who is enraged, the perfect
candidate for someone that would be least likely to interact socially. Their
mouth would be closed, and often contorted, their eyes small, and their
eyebrows arched in. As stated with the sad individual up top, the mental
processes are high here. This, along with the enraged emotion, makes this
person someone that is not good to continue interacting with. The facial
expression, as the social cue, alerts us that this person should probably be
left alone.
While
these expressions and social cues seem to come natural for most of us, they are
not part of many peoples’ common sense. Approximately fifteen million people
over the age of thirteen live with social disorders in America, with one of the
main struggles being the inability to recognize and act on social cues like
facial expressions (ADAA). This leaves out the countless school age children
that are not diagnosed until they reach an appropriate age. For us, these ideas
seem simple, with no reason to be defined, but in my future profession as a
school psychologist, I will spend every day helping students who simply cannot
grasp these concepts. As a social individual in today’s society, it is our job
to not only read these cues, and present them as accurately as possible, but to
also understand that many individuals we encounter are unable to do so, and an
understanding of this can make a significant impact on their lives.